'Remember when you were my boat, And I was your sea..'

Hey guys! Seeing as it's officially bonfire night (remember remember the 5th of November etc etc), I figured I'd write a firework-related post. For all those You Me At Six fans, you could probably guess by the title of my post - taken from their song 'Fireworks', of course!

Now, who doesn't love fireworks right? I love them. Let's be honest, they are pretty awesome. Admittedly, as a child, they scared the hell out of me. Most children are! They're loud and big and scary. But, over the past couple of years in particular, I've grown to love them more and more. This year and last year have been the only years I have actually gone out and enjoyed them.

Last year, I did a couple of things for the firework period. Firstly, a group of us went to a firework display at the primary school I was doing my childcare placement in. Was so fun to watch, just all the colours lighting up the sky. Insane. Then, a couple of us spent an evening setting out own fireworks off in a field just outside of Wootton Bassett. We all finished work around half 9, bought some fireworks and headed out. I let the others be the ones to set off the fireworks while I sat freezing my backside off playing with sparklers - I was too much of a wuss to do them myself! Far too risky for me haha. Still, we had a fun night all the same.

  

  
This year, I spent bonfire night with my best friend. As we're such cheapskates, we decided we'd watch the local primary school's fireworks from her back garden - probably had a better view if I'm honest! Anyway, we got some marshmallows and a Starbucks hot chocolate and waited for it to begin. Now, when it's as cold as it is, you can't have cold marshmallow.. Enter the candle! Roasted marshmallows, hot chocolate and fireworks on a crisp autumn evening - the definition of a perfect evening! We sat and watched the school display, which we constantly thought had ended with the long intervals every 15 minutes or so, then sat and watched the other fireworks going on around the housing estate. All was perfect! Then we heard something come down with a thud and a smash, kind of killed the atmosphere a bit but remained perfect all the same.

Hope you guys had an amazing fireworks night too! ♥

'You must have perfect skin to be beautiful...'

Hey guys! For today's society dictates, I'm going to look at how skin defines someone as 'beautiful'. Now, skin is a big personal issue of mine and I'm pretty sure plenty of girls, and guys, share the same problem as me!

 
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Has to be said, this is one of the biggest issues teenagers have to face on a day to day basis. The majority of teenagers have some form of issue with their skins, be it: eczema, acne, outbreaks etc. It does bring a major downer on your day and can really damage your self-esteem as your body image, for you, is shattered. This, added with negative comments and snide remarks, can really crush someone's confidence and, chances are, it's not even their fault they have problems with their skin. I can vouch for this...

I have eczema. You might not be able to tell if you actually look at my skin now, but if you go back 5-6 years, you would see a different story. As a child, I always had mild eczema like most children. However, when I was 14, I used a spot cream which was designed to be put directly on spots and basically put a layer all over my face which burnt my face as the cream was incredibly concentrated and acidic. After the inflammation went down, I went to the nurse as I still had flaky skin so she gave me some E45 cream which I majorly reacted to and my skin on my face swelled up. Not what a teenage girl wants! My skin then did some form of chemical peel which was very strange and I managed to infect my skin. My arms and face used to be red underneath the skin surface and very itchy and sore. 

In school, this was the last thing I needed! I'd have people stare and comment, it was actually heartbreaking and killed my self-esteem so much. Eventually, I was prescribed with some tablet which got rid of the infection and I was just left with very dry skin. Over time, it has definitely improved and, now, it's hard to tell I have anything wrong with my skin. But, at the back of my mind, it's still as bad as it was. That will never go away. At least I have found the right products which can keep all flare ups under control!

For teenage girls, in particular, skin is a big deal! If you have bad skin, you can wear many foundations or much make up. You also get people pick up on the fact your skin is bad. Especially if one day, you wear make up and, the next, you don't wear any and it's clear why. In particular, the media promote the image that girls need flawless skin to be perfect and beautiful. Let's be honest, have you ever seen a model with acne? Have you ever seen a magazine be nice about someone who isn't wearing make up...

I'm going to use Mila Kunis as my example, possibly one of the most gorgeous women in the world. 

 
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Now, her skin in the majority of her images is simply stunning. Flawless, clear, beautiful.. That's what you get when you have an amazing makeup artist! Something the rest of us can not afford, unfortunately.  Yet, the minute she get's snapped without her makeup, she gets slated big time. How is that meant to encourage young girls to go for the more natural look when celebrities get slated for it so extremely?!

 
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Sorry but I'm pretty sure there are more important things for the media to be publicising and criticising rather than slating and slagging off someone because they look 'rough' without makeup on. What kind of example does that set young girls?! The fact that most images of airbrushed and perfected anyway greatly impacts how reliable and truthful these images are. They're not real! Same for the images of girls with thigh gaps (for those who missed my post on thigh gaps, click here), these images are edited to promote the 'ideal figure' when, actually, it's an incredibly unhealthy lifestyle. With sites, such as tumblr and instagram, also promoting these images, no wonder there are so many negative and pressured girls out there with incredibly low self-esteem.

So, have a think next time you make a snide remark or see these images in magazines or online. How on earth do you think these people feel?! People really need to take a step back and realise they are not perfect either so they have NO right to make judgements on someone else until they've walked in their shoes.